Media personality Dotun has advised individuals contemplating marriage to exercise caution when selecting their partner and to reflect on the partner’s familial background.
He communicated this counsel on Twitter, emphasizing the significance of assessing both the individual and their lineage prior to making a marital choice.
He remarked that if one awaits the other to achieve happiness before pursuing their own, it will ultimately result in a separation.
In his words….
“Before you choose a partner, examine the family first. It’s tremendously important. If a decision-maker disapproves of you, that’s the end. If you anticipate your partner to fill the void, they will eventually crumble. It’s even more detrimental if you find yourself with a partner lacking their own convictions.”
“If you are merely a stepping stone, your joy will be inconsequential. Nonetheless, be responsible and ensure your choices foster happiness for your family, or else when you falter, it’s those who disfavor you that will capitalize on your misstep.”