Onwuson Faith Ifeoma, a Nollywood actress and digital content creator known as Honeypot, said she doesn’t need long periods of sexual activity to feel happy. She made this comment during an appearance on The Honest Bunch Podcast.
Honeypot, who creates content about relationships and intimacy, talked about how Igbo culture views a man’s success. She explained that a man’s success is often judged by how well his wife is treated.
She said that even if a man looks poor, you can tell he’s rich by how well his wife is taken care of. She said:
“In Igbo culture, you can see a man walking around in shorts, but if you want to know if he is rich, look at his wife. That’s not stupid.”
She added that a man’s wealth should be shown through how he takes care of his wife. She said that even if a woman has a job, she should still be cared for.
She also shared her thoughts on intimacy, saying that affection is more than just sex. She explained that physical closeness is a way to show love, including things like kissing, cuddling, and even biting. She said: “You bite everywhere. Biting is a form of affection.”
When asked to choose between a wealthy man with a big belly and poor sexual skills, and a fit man with good sexual performance, Honeypot said sex isn’t a big deal for her.
She emphasized that she’s not into sex. She said:
“I can stay months with my full chest. That’s why when I say don’t come into my DMs, I don’t do hookups.
“I can say that with my full chest because nobody can say I paid you for sex. One minute of sex is enough for me. When you’re done, come down from my body.”
Her honest words have caused a lot of discussion online.
People are sharing different opinions—some support her, others criticize or are curious—leading to more talks about relationships, intimacy, and cultural values.