Ladipo Eso, known in the music scene as Ladipoe, has voiced his doubts regarding trending tales online that depict men being financially exploited by their significant others.
He recently joined the Beat FM’s Midday Show, sharing his perspectives on finance and romantic relationships.
Ladipoe stated that in a thriving partnership, financial obligations should be clearly acknowledged by both parties.
He stressed that when he invites someone out to eat, he anticipates covering the bill, and he finds it perplexing that this is often a subject of discussion.
I often question the authenticity of the tales people share online. When engaging with a reasonable individual, things typically resolve themselves. If I invite you over for a meal, I’m covering the bill. I find it perplexing that there’s even an argument about it. Honestly, I’m skeptical about the veracity of people’s accounts; I doubt their truthfulness.
“As a man, there’s a certain energy that’s expected from you. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or not; a man must understand that there’s much more to a relationship than just being a provider, but that criterion holds significant weight.
“Other than my mother, an aunt, or some family members, no woman has ever sent me money. I do recall one instance when my older cousin gave me 60 dollars during my college days. That’s the only time I can truly recall; apart from my mom, no girl has done so.
“That’s why I’m committed to my current partner—she gifts me things ‘just because.’ She invests in me as well, which motivates me to want to provide for her. However, no one likes to feel exploited,” he stated.
The rapper recognized that men frequently feel the pressure to support in their relationships, yet he is uncertain whether this trait is beneficial or detrimental.
Nonetheless, he commended his current girlfriend, who shows gratitude and reciprocates through thoughtful actions, encouraging him to support her.
Ladipoe highlighted that no one desires to be exploited financially, asserting that mutual respect and comprehension are vital for managing financial dynamics within relationships.